To the Girl with Commitment Issues & Anxiety:

This is for the girl who is outgoing, funny, happy, and always laughing. The girl who is content with how her life is (or so she says is at least). The girl who is not afraid to express her true self with anyone she comes in contact with (except with the guy she can plan a future with). This is to the girl who is afraid of committing. The girl who easily gets involved with the guys she knows is no good for her. The guys she knows she has no future with but wastes weeks, months, and sometimes years chasing around. The girl who easily pulls the, "I'm not the relationship type," but dies to have a relationship . The girl who would rather chase the douchebag than let the guy who really wants her into her life. The girl who has a good thing going for her, but ends it because her anxiety of it never working kills her. Stop chasing the douchebag. Stop letting your anxiety allow you to end the good things just for the things that are no good for you instead because it's the "easier route." Stop praying to God every night just to ignore all the signs He gives you or turn away all the good things He sends your way. Stop worrying. Stop complaining about never being in a relationship when you turn away all the countless blessings coming your way. Stop allowing your anxiety to take control. Stop faking the "its okay" joke you lean on countless times when you know it's not. You know you deserve better, but you don't allow yourself to find the better you know you deserve. This is for the girl who has broken hearts, so she knows what it looks like. This is for the girl who has had her heart broken countless times, so she knows what it feels like. Stop ending things before they begin because "what if they don't work out." What if they don't? Will it be the first time? Probably not. Will it be the last time? Probably not. What if it does work out? What if it is the best thing to come into your life? Stop praying to God to send you someone. Start praying to God to allow your mind to control the things around you. Start praying to God to allow you to open up to the people who are good for you, and stop opening up to the guys you know you will never have a future with. God will listen, & He will eventually send you YOUR person when he sees it is fit for you. Stop rushing things within your life. You're young. You will find someone, just be patient. Things fall apart all the time, but how can they fall apart if you never allow them to come together? This is for the girl with commitment issues and anxiety. Stop pulling the "I'm not the relationship type." You are. You truly are. Stop ending good things just to rush back to the old things that hurt you. That break you down more than they build you up. Overcome your anxiety. Be the bigger person for once. Don't allow your anxiety or "commitment issues" to control you any longer. Boss up. Pray more. Worry less. It will all fall into place if you let it.. don't end it before you ever get the chance to see where it goes. This is for the girl who lays in bed crying to find her person, but not allowing herself to make connections with the people who are good for her. You are worthy of love, allow yourself to love. Heartbreaks happen, but they only happen when you allow yourself to open up to all the right people. No more letting the wrong guy in to reject the right guy. You are worthy of everything good, just allow yourself to find it and open up to it. Don't allow your anxiety to ruin it. You will regret it more than you are thankful for it.