The Friends College Brought Me.
- brittleighhh
- Nov 7, 2018
- 3 min read
College brought me so many things, and so many friends that are completely different. It may have led me to leave some friendships behind, but it has brought me so many amazing ones that I will have forever. Yes, I miss most of my old friendships, but college allowed me to find my own people. People I didn't only meet because my "highschool clique" led me to them. Friends I got to pick on my own without the judgements of anyone around me because I learned the people who judge you.. aren't your true people to begin with.
The first friend or should I say friends college brought me were the non-judgmental ones. The ones who are so outspoken on my life that they give me the advice I need to hear. Not the type of friends who tell me what I want to hear because they don't want to hurt my feelings! The friend who is always there to listen to my problems and personal gossip and NEVER tell a soul. These are the friends I am so grateful for! The friends who I tend to fall off from from a short time period of time, but as soon as we see each other or get close again, it's like nothing ever happened. Like we never spent a day away from each other. The go-to friends for anything and any problems I may have. Someone to just sit and listen. Someone to tell me exactly what I don't want to hear. Someone who never gossips about me, only with me.
The next friend college brought me, or should I say college taught me are the ones who have always been here. The ones I call up or just show up to their house throughout the week because we are just that close. The friends I grew up with & college didn't allow the distance to ruin anything. The friend I go to crying my eyes out & they just sit with me waiting to hear all about what has happened. The friend that makes me miss home, but they are apart of my home so being around them means so much! They ones who have literally been there my whole life, so adding college experiences together makes everything funnier or more memorable. The friend who is always going to be there before or after college.
Next is the accidental friendship. The bond that came out of nowhere. You were just sitting and talking and completely hit it off. The best friendship. The one where we don't talk 24/7, but we stay involved in each other's lives to know how much we care about each other! The friendship I know will last a lifetime. The friendship that showed me exactly who I want standing by my side on my wedding day. The friendship were we talk to each other little because we are busy, but we constantly still try to make plans and be together. The one that shows me we don't have to be near each other 24/7 just to be considered besties!
The last friendship is hands down the most important one. The one friend who is all my friends in one. The one where I definitely know I found my Maid of Honor, hands down! The friendship college brought me that I will forever be thankful for. The friendship that gave me my all time bestfriend when I needed one the most. The one where we stay with each other 24/7. Where we know literally every detail about each other (even when we dont want to). The one where I would go in complete life crisis without. The one I could never go a day without talking to. The one where we fight like we are siblings. The one where we yell at each other one minute for all the stupid things we do, but the next minute we are supporting each other because we are absolute bestfriends. The person I never would have met without college. The one where we get to grow up together, learn together, and experience life together. The one where we go through the worst thing ever (literally) and the best things ever together. The one friendship I would never give up on because she means that much to me. The best friendship. The lifelong friendship. My person. <3
College brought me so many bestfriends that I will forever be thankful for. They are all different in their own way, but so convenient in my own life. The ones I'll never give up on because they were put in my life for a reason!
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